So I asked my mother why she hated Big D so much. It wasn’t something out of the blue, it was actually something that came out of a conversation about the state of marriage between my parents, and how me seeing Big D behind her back while my father was away really drove her insane and stressed her out.
According to my mother, Big D was unambitious, and even if he was ambitious, his intellect would have not be sufficient to carry out any ambition.
My mother is very bad at reading people. She can hardly tell if I’m lying most of the time. But it was definitely a sad conversation for me, because ambition and intellect are things that I worry about in Bboy A all the time. Maybe I am my mother’s daughter, but in that case, I don’t think I’ll ever be able to tell my parents about him.
